In recent global survey conducted by Lovehoney Group, the global leader in sexual wellness products, 22% of men and women don’t use sex toys during sex or masturbation. While there may be various reasons for this, there is still a stigma attached to sex toys and sexual pleasure, which can make people hesitant to explore their desires and experiment with new forms of pleasure.

Sex toys have come a long way from the days of phallic-shaped vibrators and bulky dildos. Today’s sex toys are sleek, innovative, and often incredibly discreet. Whether you’re living in a shared house, traveling, or simply value your privacy, discreet sex toys can provide a satisfying sexual experience without anyone knowing. But with so many options available, it can be challenging to know where to start.

Explore the world of secretive pleasure in this ultimate guide to discreet sex toys, from small vibrators disguised as lipstick to smart speakers that double as male masturbators. If you know, you know, and if you don’t, you’re about to find out.

Crave necklace vibrator (Image credit: Watsons Singapore)

Benefits of discreet sex toys

1. Pleasure with privacy

Sex toys with simple and discreet designs are less conspicuous and allow for private use without being noticed by others. Items with privacy-conscious features such as quiet sound and travel locks are recommended.

2. Recommended for first-time users

For those who are unfamiliar with sex toys or are beginners, simple and discreet sex toys are stress-free and easy to use.

3. Anytime, anywhere

Compact and easy to handle, discreet sex toys can be used at home, while traveling, or anywhere without being noticed by others. (Note that consideration should be given to the surrounding environment and privacy!)

4. Reduce stigma and taboo

Using a discreet sex toy can help reduce the stigma and taboo associated with sex toys and sexuality, allowing people to explore their sexuality without fear or judgement. If you have a partner, your partner may be resistant to sex toys, but they may find it easier to talk about sex with discreet toys.

5. Room decors

Some suggestions

	A thoughtful toy for female pleasure The Womanizer Liberty has the brand’s patented “Pleasure Air Technology” which provides gentle suction massage to the clitoris with six levels of intensity, resulting in orgasm. It is the only model in the series with a travel cover, making it hygienic and subtle to store the toy, and discreetly hides the suction head. The cute and elegant design resembles a facial massager and can be placed on a dresser or carried in a bag without being noticed. Its compact size makes it easy to store and carry in the included pouch without drawing attention. As it is fully waterproof (IPX7), you can enjoy self-pleasure in private spaces such as the bath or shower. It is not an insertable toy, making it easy for beginners to try.
	It looks like an ordinary shower head but… The Womanizer Wave is the first ever shower head and water massage clitoral stimulator, uniting the expertise of bathroom experts hansgrohe and pleasure leaders Womanizer to create a truly outstanding crossover – the pleasure shower head. Wave can be used as a regular shower head or as a pleasure toy without your roommates or family finding out. With its three patented water jets: PleasureJet and PleasureWhirl settings stimulate the clitoris while the PowderRain setting provides a luxurious shower.
	Cute rose decor or bath-bomb? The ROMP Rose is a feminine and aesthetically pleasing toy that blends in with your interior decor. This TikTok viral toy is a clitoral suction toy that looks a like a rose. Equipped with Womanizer’s patented “Pleasure Air Technology”, it has six suction levels and four suction patterns that allow for adjustable stimulation to your liking. As it is fully waterproof (IPX7), you can enjoy self-pleasure in a relaxing space like the bath or shower.
	A versatile toy that can also be used for facial massage! The We-Vibe Touch X is a soft soft-textured mini vibrator provides strong, deep vibrations. Despite its compact size, it offers 8 different vibration patterns for massage. Resembling a facial massager, this vibrator has several discreet features such as quiet operation, waterproof (IPX7), and a travel lock function. It can be used not only for sexual pleasure but also for facial massage and everyday body massage, making it a versatile tool.
	Lipstick? Wireless earphones? The ROMP Riot is an ultra-compact yet incredibly powerful, featuring 6 intensity levels and 4 vibration patterns that provide strong stimulation to the clitoris. Its compact size resembles a lip balm or wireless earphones, making it easy to carry in your pocket or bag. It operates quietly, allowing you to discreetly focus on pleasure without worrying about the noise.
	A high-tech smart speakers? Arcwave is a sexual wellness band for male pleasure that offers a unique and pleasurable experience. Despite its design resembling a smart speaker, Arcwave Ion features the first “Pleasure Air” stroker for male pleasure. By stimulating the penis with air pulsations, it provides a new and unprecedented orgasmic sensation that you won’t have experienced before. You can place it on your bedside table or desk, and no one will question you.
	Got a new camera lens? Despite its design resembling a smart speaker, it is the features the first “Pleasure Air” stroker for male pleasure. By stimulating the penis with air pulsations, it provides a new and unprecedented orgasmic sensation that you won’t have experienced before. You can place it on your bedside table or desk, and no one will question you.

Arcwave is a sexual wellness band for male pleasure that offers a unique and pleasurable experience. Despite its design resembling a smart speaker, it is the features the first “Pleasure Air” stroker for male pleasure. By stimulating the penis with air pulsations, it provides a new and unprecedented orgasmic sensation that you won’t have experienced before. You can place it on your bedside table or desk, and no one will question you.

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