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Speak Up, Get Off: Advocating for Your Needs in Kink & Play
Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned switch, knowing how to speak up can make or break your play—and your peace of mind. This informal, interactive session with esteemed Relationship Counesellor and Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching dives into what it really means to advocate for yourself in the kink world. From navigating safer sex talks to disclosing fetishes and limits, we’ll explore how to speak your truth while respecting others’ boundaries too.
Come for the stories, stay for the scripts. No mic, no judgment, just real talk over drinks.
We’ll cover:
- How to say what you need (without killing the mood)
- Negotiating scenes and limits without shame
- What to do when someone crosses a line
- Safer sex convos—yes, even in casual hookups
- Advocating for mental/emotional safety in D/s dynamics
- Coming out kinky (when, how, and if to do it)
Bring a friend, a question, or just your curiosity.
Date: Mon 14 July 2025
Time: 7p.m. onwards
Venue: Sides Bar. 100 Orchard Road #02-33 Concorde Shopping Mall Singapore 238840
Cover charge only: S$16++
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